Are We Surprised?

        We all want to find that Special Someone. We all have that dream of being happily in love and nothing in the world matters except that one other person. How we find that Special Person is another deal altogether.
    The thing that gets me is this, when it comes to the ladies: what makes you think that putting up pictures of your tits and ass is going to help you discover a guy who enjoys your mind as well as your body? Why are you surprised when you post nothing but sex pics and then the guys are done with you after they drop a load?
    It doesn't matter how much a guy begs to see your body. If you want a guy to respect you for you, he'll see your body IN PERSON when you deem it right. If you're looking to just hook up, fine. If you're looking for a one-nighter or a booty call, fine. If you're looking for a lover, a companion, a partner... take pictures of yourself fully dressed, being social, doing stuff other than posing in your underwear.
    Let me explain something. Guys are not as complex as you think. If we see a woman in her underwear or less saying she's lonely and looking for companionship, we're not thinking about walks on the beach and reading together or dinners. We're thinking about seeing those lacy panties on the floor as you scream our name. We're thinking about what's under that pretty bra. We're thinking about the noises you make while we're pounding you. Until we're already in a relationship, most guys are NOT romantic. We're horny.
    Not to say that some of us aren't romantics. I myself enjoy the romantic part. I love the smiles and the hugs and the warmth. But I'm different. Not to say I don't enjoy a good mattress ride, but I digress.
    All I'm saying is don't be surprised that guys are only interested in your body if you show it off like merchandise. If you want more, respect yourself and others will follow.

THE INITIAL HELLO

            So, after God knows how long of people telling me to do so, I have finally started my own blog on this site. Best part is, I DON'T HAVE TO CENSOR MYSELF.
    I've had a lot of people talking shit and causing drama in my life, and if I want, I DON'T HAVE TO LET THEM READ THIS. Not even gonna tell em. This is MINE. So. Brace yourselves, cuz I'm tired of worrying about what other people think.